Let go of results and trust in (god, the universe, your houseplant, etc.) that it’ll work out.
Surface Level Dating Doesn’t Work
When it comes to dating and relationships people tend to look at the surface level. Ya know, the dating profile, what to wear, what to text back, etc. Real talk, that shit only gets you so far. It may get you the date but it doesn’t solve what’s stopping you from successfully dating.
How deep is your love? (Echos from Calvin Harris)
There is serious depth to sorting out fears that come with dating and relationships. It’s not easy. Trust me I’ve been there and I’ve been coaching women long enough to know that it can feel fucking scary to actually dig deep. But you don’t have to do it alone when you’ve got spirituality.
Oh Hello, Spirituality
I was not a spiritual person for the longest time. I knew there was something greater but I had a pretty fucking hard time releasing control. Let’s just say I was an inner control freak.
Once I found my spirituality it was a serious game changer in my love life. Whether it be breakups, dating or relationships I was able to find happiness regardless of the pain. I’m not BSing you either. My mind stopped spinning in circles with fear and anxiety.
It’s not to say that I didn’t feel anger, sadness, or happiness. I’m human so yeah I felt all of that. But with spirituality, I knew that I could get through any love obstacle with a new way to trust that it will all work out.
No one size fits all
If you struggle with spirituality you are not alone and it’s totally normal. I’ve been there and completely resisted it before. So let me ask you this, do remember a shitty time in your life? And you thought how can I get through this? And then you did.
Somehow in between the thoughts of, “Am I ever going to get through this?” And, “Holy shit I got through it.” Something made it happen. That something is what I call spirituality.
Use that trust as leverage that whatever dating issue you’re going through today you’ll absolutely get through. I see it work its magic with my clients so I know it will work for you.
3 Ways to Incorporate Spirituality with Dating:
Dating can make us question, “Will I ever find the one?” To ease the worry incorporate a mantra connected to spirituality.
Example: I am worthy of finding love and the universe will guide me.
2. Allow yourself to release
Journaling is a healthy way to connect within and spiritually. Write out any obstacles that are blocking you from dating. Then, physically release it.
Example: After journaling, rip the piece of paper up to let go of old thoughts.
3. Connecting with your gut
Follow your damn gut. Meditation or a hike is a great way to get quiet and connect.
Example: During meditation allow thoughts to come with no judgment.
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